Yesterday I went to the mail box and there was a card for me! You have to admit...don't you love to still get some snail mail every once in a while? I opened the card and the front looked like this.
When I opened it, the inside said,
"You can cope with anything if you have a FRIEND and a GOOD "F" WORD substitute"
This is SO true! Lol. Friends are so important. Just this weekend I was talking to my brother-in-law about friendships and how much they mean. I must say that I try really hard to be a good friend. I like to do little things for my friends and I try really hard to stay in touch even with the ones I haven't seen in a while.
The girl that sent this card is one of my sweetest friends in Tennessee. I have actually known her for seven years but our friendship has really flourished in the past year since she quit her job and became a stay at home mom. We were able to start spending more time together. I also recently hired her to teach CPR and she is awesome! I couldn't have a better person to rely on. Kristy is a great friend, she has came over the day before a birthday party and helped me prep my house, we have made meals together, went on countless play dates with our kids, etc. I am so glad to have her in my life. It's really crazy that we are friends though, really I was friends with her husband first.
I worked with her husband, Jason at the first hospital that I worked at in Tennessee. We hit it off as friends immediately. He was motivated, driven and I knew he was bound for success. He also at the time had a job that made a whole lot more money than me, I was the lowly secretary...lol. I was bored and needed more so I started taking on projects for him and going to his meetings to do grunt work like taking minutes, etc. Any time I had free time I would try to help him and learn what he was doing. I became an expert at v-look ups in excel and I don't think he minded having an assistant. He soon informed me after about 5 months that he was going to go into sales and leave the hospital in about a month. My mind was spinning. Could I do his job? I went in to overdrive trying to learn as much as I could during that month and he did a good job teaching me as much as he could. As soon as he left, I put in my application. I had only worked there for 6 months as the administrative assistant and now I was trying to be a Contract Analyst. Let's just say that my older co-workers with more seniority were not happy about it. It wasn't that they really wanted the job, but who was I? Some new girl from out west...the secretary!!
Well, I got that job and I loved it. It was only because of that job that I decided to follow in Jason's footsteps and get my MBA. I think I got the job in December and started back to college in January. I continued to work in that type of roll for several years and then even moved on to another hospital with a similar job with more responsibility. I owe a lot of my career to having a good mentor. Technically Jason and I only worked together for 6 short months but we stayed in touch, got together for double dates (where I met his wife) about once a year and saw each other at professional meetings. By the way, he went on to become a corporate director of the largest hospital in Knox county and recently won the "40 under 40" in Knoxville.
Kristy and I were phone friends. Before I had Hudson I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks. It was really hard on me both emotionally and physically. Needless to say, it seemed like most of the family didn't understand and I felt alone. Travis tried to be caring and understanding but he just didn't quite get what I was going through. I knew that Kristy had also had a miscarriage with her first baby and then quickly became pregnant after. It gave me hope. I called her and talked to her and she was a good shoulder to lean on. Once I had the kids, she was the friend I would call for advice since both of her kids are almost exactly a year older than mine. For the past 4 years we have chatted on the phone fairly regularly and then like I said she quit her job and then our friendship was able to grow.
Not sure why I am telling you all this history but I guess it's because both of their friendships truly changed my life and my career. I am thankful to have them both.
Kristy is so SWEET. Have I mentioned that she is super skinny, fit and beautiful?
I kind of hate her for that!
Her note in the card says,
"Just a little note to say that you look great...beautiful...amazing...and you have already accomplished more than most people do in their health goals. I am going to be so jealous of your new boobs, it's going to be hard to be around you! Keep on Keepin' On. Love ya friend!"
I guess I will get ready for the gym now....and KEEP ON KEEPIN' ON.
Thanks Kristy!